Answer
If you don't want simultaneous ap/sta, you can run the commands:
nmcli conn add type wifi ifname wlan0 con-name softAP autoconnect no ssid softAP
nmcli conn modify softAP 802-11-wireless.mode ap 802-11-wireless.band bg 802-11d
nmcli conn up softAP
You can also do it via wpa_supplicant .conf files if you do not have nmcli.